My daughter's friends were in a fight last evening while she was scootering. One of them scolded the other. One abused the other to be an idiot. The other angrily questioned what an idiot meant. My daughter updated this happening at night as we were spending time with each other. I was curious to know what the other answered. However, my daughter was away from them to listen to that part.
She continued, “Idiot is I Do Ishq Only Tumse. That is what you used during school days. Isn’t it?” I laughed. I was surprised by what she remembered. I never use ‘idiot’ when I speak. Scolding from me is, at the most, a raise in my pitch. I don’t remember having even used monkeys or donkeys for my kids. There is hardly any verbal abusive usage at my house too. With the advent of media today, abuse has undergone a makeover. Hahaha! As kids, at the max, we turned out to be some animals. We get to hear some typical Kannada slang while we are on the passenger seats of a family outing. Lest I sometimes wonder how would kids cope with the harsh outer world. And then I brush it aside by self consoling that life goes on.
I could not recollect as to when I had mentioned the funny school acronym to my daughter. We had a good laugh, while I realized I use the word for self scolding or when I lovingly think of the mischiefs of my kids. With kids, we indeed relive a lot of moments.